Who do you want to meet?
Now that you’ve created your perfect self, let’s imagine who you want to meet. In this case, however, we’re going to be a tad less specific. Why? Well because for one you may be surprised by someone you didn’t think was perfect and two it’s going to take time to find out enough information to actually figure out if they’re right for you.
Think of this like writing an old-school newspaper personal ad. I’ll give you up to 35 words.
For example, here’s mine:
Looking for an intelligent, fit, drug-free Single Female, 25-35 (ish) with stable job, positive outlook, sense of adventure who has a good relationship with her parents for wine, dinners, and low and high brow adventures of all kinds.
So,why is this important? We’ll cover this in more detail as time goes on, but to start, how can you find a person if you don’t know who you’re looking for and where? Would I be more likely to find this person at a dive bar or a charity event?
Remember, if you don’t know who you’re looking for it will be impossible to find and date her. So write this down and keep it handy. We’ll be referring back to it often.