A woman wants a man to be a confident man. Men who use pickup lines and “opening sets” do so because they lack the confidence to have a natural, organic conversation and develop a deep, intimate bond utilizing their strengths. Afterall, if they were confident enough to know what to say would they need someone else telling them?
Of course not, and by the time you confidently walk up to a woman and say “Hi” she will have heard them all before. She’ll be refreshed by your sincerity and lack of stupid rehearsed and rehashed pickup lines. She’ll want to know more because she knows she’ll be getting to know you.
A confident man is proud of himself and what he has to offer.
The most confident man is naturally himself.
The most confident man is, naturally, you.